Virginity is the state of a person who has never engaged in sexual intercourse. There are cultural and religious traditions that place special value and significance on this state, predominantly towards unmarried females, associated with notions of personal purity, honor and worth. Like chastity, the concept of virginity has traditionally involved sexual abstinence.
Does it hurt to lose your virginity? The first time you have vaginal sex, it may hurt, or feel good, or both.There might be pain and bleeding the first time a penis or fingers go into your vagina, but it doesn’t happen to everybody.
Bottom line: the definition of virginity is complicated, and it’s really up to you to decide what you believe. Some people don't even care what “virginity” means or think it matters. Stressing about whether you’re a virgin is way less important than how you feel about your sexual experiences.